You’re Engaged—Now What?
A Guide to What Comes Next After Saying “Yes”
First of all, congratulations! 💍 This is such an exciting time, and your journey to “I do” starts now. But after the initial excitement settles, you might be wondering—what’s next? Don’t worry! Here’s a simple guide to help you navigate your engagement and wedding planning with ease.
Share the News
Once you’ve said yes, take a moment to celebrate together as a couple before spreading the word. Share the exciting news with your closest family and friends first (in person or over the phone), and then announce it to the world—hello, Instagram-worthy engagement post!
Tip: If you’re planning an engagement party, this is the perfect way to kick off the celebrations.
Set a Date (or a Season)
Before diving into the details, decide on a rough timeline for your wedding. Are you dreaming of a summer ceremony or a cozy winter wedding? Choosing a date or season will help guide the rest of your planning.
Set a Budget
This is a biggie! Sit down with your partner and any family members contributing financially to figure out your budget. Having a clear idea of your spending limits will help you make decisions without unnecessary stress.
Build Your Guest List
Start drafting a guest list to get a sense of how many people you’ll invite. Your list will impact your venue options, catering, and overall costs, so this is an important early step.
Book Your Venue
Venues tend to book up quickly, especially in popular wedding months. Once you’ve decided on your date, secure your venue as soon as possible. The venue sets the tone for your entire wedding day!
Hire Key Vendors
Next up, focus on locking in your must-have vendors. Think photographer, videographer, caterer, makeup artist, florist etc. If you’re considering hiring a wedding planner, now is the time to do so—they can help with all the moving pieces and even have a list of vendors they can recommend!
Choose Your Wedding Party
It’s time to pop the question to your besties! Whether it’s a simple ask or a fun proposal box, let your closest friends and family know they’ll be standing by your side on your big day.
Find Your Dream Look
Whether you’re going traditional or modern, shopping for your wedding outfit(s) is a special moment. Start early, especially if you’re going custom or need alterations—it takes time!
Enjoy the Process
Wedding planning can feel overwhelming, but don’t forget to enjoy this season of life. Schedule date nights with your partner that don’t involve wedding talk, soak in the moments, and remember—this is about celebrating your love.
Final Thoughts
Getting engaged is just the beginning of an incredible adventure. With a little organization and a lot of love, you’ll be on your way to planning the wedding of your dreams. Take it one step at a time—and don’t forget to celebrate along the way! 💕
